The fantasy suites episode is easily one ofThe Bachelor‘s most anticipated, a fact that is not lost on new BachelorColton Underwood.

“It’s no surprise to me that people are going to view theFantasy Suitesas this big week for me,” says Underwood, who revealed onBecca Kufrin‘s season ofThe Bachelorettethathe is a virgin. “People are probably going to put a lot of pressure [on it]… but for me, it was more about the private moments.”

The 26-year-old former professional football player’s admission certainly made headlines, but he never intended for hisvirginityto be such a talking point.

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“I had no plans to share that I was a virgin,” says Underwood. “It was something in the moment with Becca. It was important for her to know. I didn’t think it was going to be a big deal but obviously, a lot of people latched onto that.”

And though he’s “grateful” for the support and fan reactions he received after he opened up, Underwood is quick to point out that being a virgin is only a “small part of who I am.”

Says Underwood: “It’s a decision I consciously made, but it’s just something that makes me into who I am. There is a stigma around athletes and I think the more that us as humans can do to break those, the better.”

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And when it comes to the fantasy suites, Underwood says he looked forward to them — if for nothing but a chance to get away from the ever-present cameras.

“It’s the first time you get to spend with somebody off camera and you can really get to know them and ask the weird questions you might not otherwise,” he explains. “I treat it like another date, an opportunity to get to know someone on an intimate level.”

The Bachelorpremieres Monday, Jan. 7 at 8 p.m. on ABC.

source: people.com