Photo: Courtesy Carol Buckley
“She’s home, she’s safe, she’s under my care again — and forever this time,” Buckley tells PEOPLE.
On that day, 47-year-old Tarra was loaded onto a trailer so Buckley could drive her to her new home, Elephant Refuge North America, that Buckley had since founded on 850 lush acres in Attapulgus, Georgia. Tarra didn’t immediately respond to Buckley. The Sanctuary staff took four hours to load the elephant on the trailer and Buckley says Tarra was distressed and enraged.
“She would be dangerous if she didn’t recognize me,” Buckley shares. “I needed to be careful. On that 10 hour drive, I was making my plan of what I would do and how I would do it.”
They arrived at Elephant Refuge North America at 11 p.m. Buckley opened the gate on Tarra’s trailer a little bit and moved away to an area where she could get to safety if needed. Tarra pushed the trailer door all the way open.
“As she took a couple of steps down. I said, ‘Hey hun, it’s me. You’re home now,’ and she looked at me, her eyes popped, and she just started talking her Tarra talk,” Buckley describes the moment of Tarra’s homecoming. “She comes down the ramp, looks around, she’s smelling, she comes over to me, and I say, ‘Honey, you can’t touch me yet because I am afraid. I saw how you looked 10 hours ago. You looked like a monster, and you’ve got to give me a minute to accept that this is not dangerous.’ "
Courtesy Carol Buckley
Buckley walked into the elephant’s new habitat, and Tarra followed her. They went over to greet Bo, another elephant in the sanctuary standing behind his fence. He reached his trunk over to Tarra.
“They’re both talking together, and I’m standing 5 feet away. She turns to me, she gives me this big ol' Tarra smile with big eyes, and she raises her trunk out like an arm around my waist, she pulls me to her chest, and she just starts rumbling, like a cat purr. And I just start crying because this is it. This is my Tarra. Everything’s fine, our relationship is not damaged, this is really good,” Buckley adds of the moment.
“At that point, all is forgiven,” she says of the protracted legal battle. “None of that matters. She’s home with me. She’s got a dog here that loves her. And Bo, he’s such a gentleman. He’s easy with her. The whole thing is just magic.”
Tarra and Buckley’s story started when Buckley was an 18-year-old freshman at Moorpark College Exotic Animal Training and Management in Moorpark, California. Buckley was working on her studies when she noticed an elephant walking in front of her rental house, a jute rope tied around the animal’s neck. The man walking the elephant turned out to be the owner of a tire store chain that used the animal for advertising and publicity.
She later spoke up about bettering the elephant’s care at the tire store; she was rebuffed. Buckley took out a loan with her parents as co-signers to buy the elephant in 1976 for $25,000. To feed her elephant, Buckley needed 20 pounds of produce, grains, and hay every day, so she made a deal with local grocery stores to take their imperfect fruits and vegetables.
Renaming the elephant Tarra, Buckley performed with the elephant for eight years in circus shows and then did educational programs and offered elephant rides at zoos in summers for 12 years. Throughout it all, Tarra’s intelligence was evident. One day Buckley put a paintbrush in Tarra’s trunk. The elephant happily painted an abstract picture that appeared, upon closer inspection, to include letters from her name.
Buckley also trained Tarra for Hollywood. She appeared in 1982’sAnnieas the rollerskating elephant Carol Burnett rides and had other roles in film and commercials.
“She was a kid, and it was fun,” Buckley says of Tarra’s rollerskatingAnnierole. “They’re no different than human children. They want to have fun. They just happen to be quite a bit larger. She was precocious and trusted me and was willing to try something.”
The Elephant Sanctuary cited those friendships to explain why they went through such lengths to keep Tarra after Buckley left. “Over the decades at The Sanctuary, Tarra has developed relationships with many other elephants,” CEO Janice Zeitlin said in a statement to PEOPLE. “Tarra and Sissy have been together at The Sanctuary for 21 years, and their special relationship has been well documented. It is recognized that elephants become strongly bonded to other elephants. The Elephant Sanctuary embraces the role as protector of these elephants and is committed to supporting their opportunities to bond with other elephants and to provide them the stability of lifetime care without the threat of loss of home and long-standing elephant relationships.”
While Tarra has left the bonds from The Elephant Sanctuary behind, she has rekindled her deep friendship with Buckley and started new relationships with Elephant Refuge North America’s residents. Buckley, 67, is thrilled to have Tarra back in her life. She talks to Tarra, and Tarra chatters back, just like old times.
source: people.com
